Stop Fighting!
without stuffing your feelings or sacrificing your needs
8-Week Intensive
Private Coaching Program for Couples
Does this sound like you?
You and your partner have the same fights over and over again.
You two are at odds about something and you just can't figure it out, no matter how much you try to resolve it.
You're tired of being stuck and wish you could get to the bottom of it once and for all.
You just want to be free of this persistent, pesky, painful conflict and use all that energy for more productive things, like loving each other better.
YOU KNOW THAT IT'S TIME
to go from conflict to connection and start loving each other better, you just don't know how.
What if you and your partner could:
Have the hard conversations without them devolving
into fights?
Collaboratively resolve your conflicts instead of just giving in?
Be honest, feel heard, and find win-win solutions that genuinely work for both of you?
This is all possible for you!
You just have to learn + apply some simple-yet-profound communication and conflict resolution skills.
And that's where I come in!
Here's How It Works
Learn: You and your partner get exclusive access to a private LIVE workshop where you will both learn the essential skills and principles of Nonviolent Communication, so you know exactly how to stop any fight and instantly turn it into an opportunity for deepening your connection. By the end of the workshop, you'll have a shared language, shared framework, and shared roadmap for working through your issues and healing your relationship, one heart-centered conversation at a time.
Practice: Between each part of the 3-part workshop, you'll get homework and practice suggestions so you can start using your new skills immediately.
Implement: If you want to see real, lasting change, you need support applying what you learn. That's why you'll also get SIX private coaching sessions, all focused on helping you implement your new skills into your unique relationship. You'll choose at least one issue in your relationship where you feel stuck, and together we will get to the heart of it. We will figure out exactly what is going on for each of you, and how to resolve it in a way that genuinely works for both of you. You'll have hands-on coaching during and between your sessions, including expertly facilitated conversations, so you don't have to talk about the challenging stuff on your own.
Tranform: With all of this support, it's fair to expect life-altering transformation with this program. You may not even recognize your relationship at the end of these eight weeks. When you put the work in, you'll both become rockstars at navigating any conflict with confidence, compassion, and connection. Tough conversations won't be so intimidating anymore, so you can face them directly and productively, and you'll know exactly how to stop fighting without stuffing your feelings or sacrificing your needs.
I give you my all in this intensive: I'm totally devoted to you for these eight weeks, and am available afterwards for more support as wanted - you do not have to figure this out on your own!
You and your partner absolutely can have...
MORE PEACE
No more having the same fights over and over again!
MORE CONNECTION
No more getting stuck in a cycle of disconnection and defensiveness!
MORE LOVE
Know exactly how to get to the heart of the matter faster so you can spend less time fighting (or avoiding each other) and more time doing what you do best: loving each other!
Cheri
“What really worked for me was how calm and patient Ali was with us; it's like she really believes in this process and has immense hope for each of us."
“What really worked for me was how calm and patient Ali was with us; it's like she really believes in this process and has immense hope for each of us."
Cheri
You want to work this out, but you are hesitant to get help because...
You think you should be able to figure it out on your own.
You're worried you'll be blamed and told it's all your fault.
You're afraid that asking for professional help would mean that your relationship is on the verge of ending.
You don't want to "air your dirty laundry" in front of a stranger.
Or maybe you've tried couples counseling and it didn't help or made things worse.
I know these worries because
I coach couples like you every day.
Being hesitant is understandable. Big change takes big courage.
My question for you is:
How important is it to you right now to have genuine peace in your relationship?
I'm not talking about the superficial peace, where you stuff your feelings, sacrifice your needs, avoid the elephant in the room, sweep sh*t under the rug, or pretend everything is fine, when you're actually filled with resentment, hurting inside, and fearing this might be as good as it gets.
I'm talking about having the skills to have authentic peace, where you can freely express your feelings without it turning into a fight, where you can ask for what you want and need without fear or guilt, and where you joyfully work together as teammates to co-create the extraordinary relationship you're both longing for.
Are you ready?
These skills will last a lifetime, and will radically change the way you relate to yourself and your partner.
Here's what you'll get inside the:
Stop Fighting!
Private Coaching Program
for Couples
1 PRIVATE LIVE WORKSHOP
A private, LIVE, couples communication workshop over Zoom exclusively for you and your partner, which you can record for lifetime access. You will leave with a shared language and roadmap for having hard conversations with open hearts. Includes 2 comprehensive workbooks and emails to further support your learning.
6 PRIVATE COACHING SESSIONS
This is where you get expert support applying your new communication skills to your unique relationship. We will start by selecting one issue to focus on. With expertly facilitated conversations, we will get to the bottom of that particular conflict or challenge, focus on mutual understanding, create agreements that you're both excited about, and test out those agreements to make sure they're effective, or revise them so they work better! You'll master the roadmap for having productive and connecting conversations about challenging topics. You'll also get between-session coaching over email and a Custom Action Plan after each session, including homework/practice suggestions to enhance your learning.
ACCESS TO BONUS RESOURCES
Additional support (ex. videos, worksheets) may be provided between sessions, if relevant to furthering your goals.
Meet Your Coach
Hi, I'm Ali Miller
I'm a Certified Couples Communication Clini-Coach® and Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist.
Over the past two decades, I’ve helped hundreds of couples just like you strengthen their relationship by learning how to communicate effectively and compassionately, especially through hard times.
And now I want to help you and your partner go from conflict to connection so you can start loving each other better.
Meet Your Coach
Hi, I'm Ali Miller
I'm a Certified Couples Communication Clini-Coach® and Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist.
Over the past two decades, I’ve helped hundreds of couples just like you strengthen their relationship by learning how to communicate effectively and compassionately, especially through hard times.
And now I want to help you and your partner go from conflict to connection so you can start loving each other better.
Kyle
“The structure and frameworks for Compassionate / Heart Centered Communication provide me with clear tools to use with my partner to understand her core needs and therefore understand her better. Ali's 1:1 teaching is fantastically helpful; her depth of knowledge and experience with couples communication is clearly superb."
"The structure and frameworks for Compassionate / Heart Centered Communication provide me with clear tools to use with my partner to understand her core needs and therefore understand her better. Ali's 1:1 teaching is fantastically helpful; her depth of knowledge and experience with couples communication is clearly superb."
Kyle
Life is short. Love is precious. Don't waste another minute fighting with your partner.
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