Stop Fighting!
without stuffing your feelings or sacrificing your needs
8-Week Intensive
Private Coaching Program for Couples
Does this sound like you?
You and your partner have the same fights over and over again.
You two are at odds about something and you just can't figure it out, no matter how much you try to resolve it.
You're tired of being stuck and wish you could get to the bottom of it once and for all.
You just want to be free of this persistent, painful conflict and use all that energy for more productive things, like loving each other better.
YOU KNOW THAT IT'S TIME
to go from conflict to connection and start loving each other better, you just don't know how.
What if you and your partner could:
Have the hard conversations without them devolving
into fights?
Collaboratively resolve your conflicts instead of just giving in?
Be honest, feel heard, and find win-win solutions that genuinely work for both of you?
This is all possible for you!
You just have to learn + apply some simple-yet-profound communication and conflict resolution skills.
And that's where I come in!
WHAT ClIENTS ARE SAYING
Testimonials
This workshop has given me a lot more hope for the future, being able to navigate our issues and disagreements with more peace and love and much less fighting.
~Brandon
The program gave us a framework for addressing difficult topics and feelings in a way that is effective and uncomplicated. It made me feel like the communication gap wasn't as big or daunting as I thought it was!
~Courtney
Our work with Ali has made a huge difference in our ability to move through painful or triggering topics. My husband and I have spent years circling the same arguments. In each session with Ali, we would tackle an entrenched issue and, using the tools of NVC, move through them quickly and end each session with the massive relief of feeling truly understood.
~Dee
Here's How It Works
Step 1 - Learn: You and your partner get exclusive access to a private 3-part LIVE workshop for just the two of you, called Hearing Each Other's Hearts: Nonviolent Communication Essentials for Couples. In this comprehensive 4.5 hour workshop, you will both learn and practice the communication and conflict navigation skills you need in order to have productive and connecting conversations about absolutely anything. You'll learn exactly how to stop any fight and instantly turn it into an opportunity for deepening your connection. By the end of the workshop, you'll have a shared language, shared framework, and shared roadmap for working through your issues and healing your relationship, one heart-centered conversation at a time.
Step 2 - Practice: Between each part of the 3-part workshop, you'll get access to digital worksheets, discussion prompts, and practice suggestions, so you can take what you learned and practice your new skills right away. You'll have access to email coaching throughout, so you can ask all your questions as they arise. Practicing between meetings is what will take you from having a theoretical, intellectual understanding to really grasping and internalizing your new tools, so you can start to see immediate improvements in your relationship.
Step 3 - Implement: If you want to see real, lasting change, you need support applying what you learn. That's why you'll also get SIX deep-dive private coaching sessions (50 minutes each), all focused on helping you implement your new skills into your unique relationship. You'll start by identifying at least one challenging issue in your relationship where you feel stuck, and together we will get to the heart of it. We will figure out exactly what is going on for each of you, and how to resolve it in a way that genuinely works for both of you. The first two sessions will be one-to-one sessions, so I can support each of you individually first and help you both optimize the effectiveness of the four couples coaching sessions. You'll have hands-on coaching during and between your sessions, including expertly facilitated conversations, so you don't have to talk about the challenging stuff on your own.
Step 4 - Celebrate Your Tranformation : With your new communication tool belt and tailored support, you'll finally have everything you need to be in the relationship you've always known is possible for you. When you put the work in, you'll both become rockstars at navigating any conflict with confidence, compassion, and connection. Tough conversations won't be so intimidating anymore, so you can face them directly and productively, and you'll know exactly how to stop fighting without stuffing your feelings or sacrificing your needs.
I give you my all in this intensive: I'm totally devoted to you for these eight weeks, and am available afterwards for more support as wanted - you do not have to figure this out on your own!
You and your partner absolutely can have...
MORE PEACE
No more having the same fights over and over again!
MORE CONNECTION
No more getting stuck in a cycle of disconnection and defensiveness!
MORE LOVE
Know exactly how to get to the heart of the matter faster so you can spend less time fighting (or avoiding each other) and more time doing what you do best: loving each other!
I recommend this program 100%. I feel it has been transformational for our relationship. We have always had a lot of good in our relationship, but I was avoiding the difficult parts because I didn't like fights. Neither of us enjoyed fighting, but traditional communication patterns kept putting us there. This program has given us the process we needed to communicate and navigate conflict without fighting. I now feel very proud of us for how we handle hard issues. Ali had such a kind and generous presence in the process. We always looked forward to meeting with her. Plus, she really knows what she is doing. Having a coach to help sort out the issues as they came up was so helpful.
You want to work this out, but you are hesitant to get help because...
You think you should be able to figure it out on your own.
You're worried you'll be blamed and told it's all your fault.
You're afraid that asking for professional help would mean that your relationship is on the verge of ending.
You don't want to "air your dirty laundry" in front of a stranger.
Or maybe you've tried couples counseling and it didn't help or made things worse.
I know these worries because
I coach couples like you every day.
Being hesitant is understandable. Big change takes big courage.
My question for you is:
How important is it to you right now to have genuine peace in your relationship?
I'm not talking about the superficial peace, where you stuff your feelings, sacrifice your needs, avoid the elephant in the room, sweep sh*t under the rug, or pretend everything is fine, when you're actually filled with resentment, hurting inside, and fearing this might be as good as it gets.
I'm talking about having the skills to have authentic peace, where you can freely express your feelings without it turning into a fight, where you can ask for what you want and need without fear or guilt, and where you joyfully work together as teammates to co-create the extraordinary relationship you're both longing for.
Are you ready?
These skills will last a lifetime, and will radically change the way you relate to yourself and your partner.
Here's what you'll get inside the:
Stop Fighting!
Private Coaching Program
for Couples
1 PRIVATE LIVE WORKSHOP (4.5 hours)
6 PRIVATE COACHING SESSIONS (50 minutes each)
ACCESS TO BONUS RESOURCES
Additional support (ex. videos, worksheets) may be provided between sessions, if relevant to furthering your goals.
Meet Your Coach
Hi, I'm Ali Miller
I'm a Certified Couples Communication Clini-Coach® and Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist.
Over the past two decades, I’ve helped hundreds of couples just like you strengthen their relationship by learning how to communicate effectively and compassionately, especially through hard times.
And now I want to help you and your partner go from conflict to connection so you can start loving each other better.
Meet Your Coach
Hi, I'm Ali Miller
I'm a Certified Couples Communication Clini-Coach® and Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist.
Over the past two decades, I’ve helped hundreds of couples just like you strengthen their relationship by learning how to communicate effectively and compassionately, especially through hard times.
And now I want to help you and your partner go from conflict to connection so you can start loving each other better.
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Testimonials
The work we did together through the fall has made a huge difference. The amount of arguing and tension in our house is down by at least 75% and N and I have been really enjoying each other's company. I can also tell that our kids are feeling less stressed. I am grateful to you for your help in getting to a more peaceful and joyful place in our family. As I'm sure you know, when things are feeling sweeter at home, all of life feels way better.
~D
I believe our marriage was greatly helped by Ali as my wife and I became better equipped to handle the conflicts that come up in our relationship. We now feel more at ease as we have some tools to address conflict and actually bring greater connection through the struggles of being together. Now my partner and I are on the same page in approaching conflict with less fear of it escalating.
~David
The structure and frameworks for Compassionate / Heart Centered Communication provide me with clear tools to use with my partner to understand her core needs and therefore understand her better. Ali's 1:1 teaching is fantastically helpful; her depth of knowledge and experience with couples communication is clearly superb.
~Kyle
Life is short. Love is precious. Don't waste another minute fighting with your partner.
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